How to entertain a girl. How to cheer up a girl What to do with your girlfriend
It has long been no secret that many girls fall in love with guys who make them smile. You can cheer up your chosen one in many ways, and we will look at some of them.
There can be many reasons, and we will discuss only a few of them.
She had a quarrel with someone. After a conflict situation with someone, almost any person feels as if “out of place,” and it is quite possible that your interlocutor also experienced a similar situation the day before. If this is the case, and your relationship is close enough, then she will probably talk about the incident herself.
She is unsure of herself. Often the reason for a girl's bad mood can be lack of self-confidence. She may feel that she is not attractive enough, interesting enough, and the like. In addition, she believes that all her shortcomings are visible to others, and this depresses her. She may also be insecure about the outfit she is currently wearing. A sincerely given compliment can correct the situation.
Unjustified expectations. If this happened at a meeting with you, then perhaps she was expecting something else - another date, conversations on other topics, different behavior on your part, and so on. She probably thought about how everything would happen, but the reality was not what she wanted.
Problems at work or school. It is possible that she is not doing well at work or school. Perhaps she cannot cope with some tasks or her relationship with someone from the team is strained, and this upsets her.
Family troubles. It is possible that not everything is well in the girl’s family now - someone is sick, there was a quarrel, someone in the family has problems of a different nature.
Health. Perhaps she has some kind of health problem - a toothache, a past injury is making itself felt, “women’s sores” or something like that. If this is true, you may not know about it because... many girls are embarrassed to talk about such things.
Ex-boyfriend. Her former lover made himself known, and now she is again immersed in thoughts about the breakup and past problems. Perhaps their communication turned out to be unpleasant, or, on the contrary, he tried to win the girl back, which confused her.
Change of plans. The girl planned her day or evening in a certain way, but for some reason the plans had to be changed. The changes do not seem to her to be equivalent to the original plans, and this does not make her happy.
Fatigue. She just might be tired. Perhaps she worked a lot, did housework, “roamed around the city” for several hours on business, and so on. Now she simply physically does not have the strength to have fun.
Memories. She simply remembered something unpleasant that could have happened a few years ago. These thoughts provoked her bad mood.
Your behavior. She may have been in a normal mood before meeting you, but in the end it was your behavior that confused her. It is possible that you make rude or tactless jokes (remarks), your conversation does not go well and she feels awkward, she does not see serious interest on your part, the given topic of conversation is of little interest to her, and so on.
Wishes for a good day in the morning
A good morning wish can put you in a good mood for the whole day - especially if it comes from a person who likes a girl. Write to her in the morning that today will certainly be a good day, let her smile more often, and, as usual, charge everything around with her bright energy. You can send her a cute postcard - a kitten frolicking on the grass; snowy city; a snowdrop breaking through the melting snow; a forest path illuminated by the sun and the like. In general, choose what seems most appropriate to you and what the girl will probably like.
Funny short sms
If something funny happens to you, then you can tell the girl about it via SMS. If nothing like this happened, then just send her jokes that are full of many groups on social networks. Choose short jokes so that girls don’t have to spend a lot of time reading them.
Send a funny video
Many people love to watch funny videos, and perhaps your girlfriend is no exception. Send her something funny, related to animals, for example. Avoid vulgar or downright stupid videos. Please note that a joke that you can tell a friend will not always be received with a bang by the girl.
Compliments are always a win-win
Girls love compliments, and this is an indisputable fact. If you saw each other recently or today, you can write to her: “You were wearing a very beautiful dress, for some reason I remember it,” “I never tire of being amazed at what an incredible eye color you have,” “You look especially gorgeous today.” If you have personal communication, then give compliments immediately, without putting them off for later.
How to quickly cheer up your girlfriend on VK by correspondence
It’s a little easier to cheer up a girl through correspondence on a social network than just via SMS. If you know for sure that the interlocutor is free now, then you can tell her a long funny story that once happened to you. Since we are talking about the girl you love, you can remember some pleasant and fun moments that happened with you two. You can reinforce pleasant memories with an appropriate photograph.
You can also send the video that you just shot - let it contain a sweet declaration of love, or just some kind and affectionate words. If you are not in the mood to shoot videos, then you can find them on the Internet, focusing on the taste of your chosen one. For example, you know for sure that she likes kittens and loves children - in this case, send funny videos with mischievous cats and babies. Surely, they will be able to cheer up a girl - besides, there are usually a lot of such videos on the Internet and the collection is regularly updated.
You can start making plans with your girlfriend via correspondence on VK, which she will probably like. It could be about a trip to another city, a trip to another country, an upcoming birthday, and so on. Many girls love to plan and it really lifts their spirits.
Send her a beautiful love poem. You can write it yourself or choose the right work by studying some of the works of famous classics. Surely, the chosen one will be pleased to read words of love in this form.
What to say to a girl when she is sick and sad
Encourage with the right words
If your girlfriend is sick, and because of this she is not in any mood, then you have the power to cheer her up and direct her thoughts in a completely different direction. Offer to take her out or go to some interesting place immediately after she gets better. Choose an option for spending time that she will definitely like. Tell her you miss her smile and ask what you can do to make her feel at least a little better.
Distract with a beautiful poem or SMS
A sick girl not only usually feels bad, but also suffers from bad thoughts. It may seem to her that while she is fighting her illness, you can pay attention to another person. She is also now less confident in her attractiveness because... any illness usually affects appearance in some way. Your task is to dispel all the doubts of your chosen one, paying her as much attention as possible - including by correspondence. Let her know that you think about her often. Write her touching and sensual SMS - she will appreciate it. Don’t disappear for a long period, try to be in touch almost always. It wouldn’t hurt to send your beloved a beautiful poem about love – either written by you or found on the Internet. Also, choose a romantic song, study the lyrics, make sure that there are only pleasant and exciting words - send this work to the girl, noting that it reminded you of her.
Reassure with a positive outlook and attitude
Let the girl know that you are confident in her speedy recovery. At the same time, note that if the process takes a little longer, then you will be with her all this time and support her in every possible way. Come up with some interesting pastime that she can afford now. If you can visit her, then be sure to take advantage of this opportunity, but do not abuse it - a sick person needs proper rest and sleep, so one visit a day will be enough, after which keep in touch in another way. Let the girl understand that despite the fact that today she seems to have “fell out of life” a little, your attitude towards her remains the same, and you are still ready to take care of her.
It's nice to surprise with a surprise
Of course, words alone are not enough in this situation, and this is exactly the case when a guy has a huge chance to prove himself and get closer to a girl. Some young people make the catastrophic mistake of telling a girl something like: “Well, for now, you get better, we’ll meet later, I won’t bother you.” Most often, this behavior results in a break in the relationship on the part of the girl, because she understands that this guy only needs him when she doesn’t have problems. If you want to impress a girl and become the main character in her enthusiastic stories to her friends, then act differently. Bring her, for example, a basket of fruit - firstly, vitamins will not hurt her now, and secondly, it’s just pleasant and impressive. You can also bring some goodies that she likes - candy, sushi, or even sausage! It is important that you remember her tastes and want to please her. Girls of all ages respond positively to soft toys - bring her a big hare or a bear, saying that he will “look after” her while you are not around. In general, the gift can be anything - the main thing is that it is a pleasant surprise for the girl.
By the way, the surprise may be of a different kind. For example, a collage with photos of you together, a video made from footage of your vacation together, an armful of balloons, a flower in a pot, and much more. The main thing is that it is touching and beautiful.
Please note that if you regularly visit a girl during this period, then this can not only please her, but sometimes put her in an uncomfortable position - this is due to the fact that you need to be looked after during tea parties, fed you lunch, and the like. This may seem like a small thing, but during illness, not every girl is able to take care of such things every day. This is why you should bring treats for tea yourself, to avoid possible awkward situations.
Please with flowers
Surely, your girlfriend loves flowers, and now you have the right reason to give her such a sign of attention. Choose a beautiful bouquet and bring it in person or send it through a courier. Most likely, your chosen one will be pleased with such a gesture, and the flowers will delight her eyes for a long time, reminding her of you. If the recovery period is prolonged, please the girl with flowers more often - don’t even doubt that she will like it.
A gift for no reason. Any woman will be delighted to receive a good gift for no reason. And we may not necessarily be talking about an expensive gift. Many men are accustomed to acting in a standard way - making surprises on major holidays, the rest of the time limiting themselves to monotonous dates, or even sitting at home in front of the TV. Of course, such uniformity can become boring over time, and if you notice a similar problem in yourself, learn to be spontaneity, for example, in gifts, even if sometimes there is no reason. If you know that your chosen one dreams of some thing, then if you have the opportunity, then buy it now, without waiting for the holiday date. Surely, a woman will appreciate such an impulse. Give her periodically boxes of her favorite chocolates, small and cute or huge and chic bouquets, the perfume she dreamed of, and so on. If you are comfortable with your chosen one, and you feel that she makes you happy, then such signs of attention towards her will only be a joy to you.
Chocolate, sweets. Many girls have a sweet tooth, and perhaps your chosen one is one of them. If this is really the case, then periodically delight her with her favorite delicacies. Surely, during the period of communication with her, you managed to study her tastes at least a little, so it will not be difficult for you to choose sweets for her - a large bar of chocolate for her, several kinder surprises, a bag of prunes in chocolate, a box of dates or delicate airy cakes, beautiful cake and much more! Undoubtedly, some of the above will delight your sweet-toothed girl! If you don’t know exactly what your lady will like, don’t be afraid to experiment - perhaps you will be able to surprise her with something that she hasn’t tried yet. Saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but, oddly enough, a woman can also be conquered in a similar way!
Gatherings with girlfriends. Many guys are very jealous of the fact that their girls can spend a lot of time in the company of their friends. If there is such a problem in your relationship, then over time it will lead to serious consequences. In this way, you show the girl your distrust, which involuntarily pushes her away from you. Let her spend time and have fun with her friends - she has every right to do so. If you express any dissatisfaction, she will soon begin to miss the time when you were not in her life. Believe me, if she has no obstacles in meeting her friends, they will not become the coveted “forbidden fruit” for her. If you objectively understand that these gatherings do not go beyond what is reasonable, then do serious psychological work on yourself in order to understand why you have a negative reaction.
Time with your loved one. If it seems to you that the girl you love is more interested in spending time with someone than with you, then it is in your power to correct this. Have really interesting dates, and the girl will start smiling more and more often around you. The main thing is that there should be variety in your pastime, and then the two of you will have a good time in this relationship.
So, what dating options can you think about:
- Picnic. Organize a romantic picnic for your girlfriend. Wait for warm, but not hot weather, choose a picturesque place, stock up on fruits and goodies that your girlfriend likes, take a thermos of coffee, a bottle of wine or just some tasty drink, and invite your chosen one.
- New coffee shop. Many couples prefer to go to the same already familiar dreams, and sometimes they don’t even notice that it no longer gives them the same joy and interest. Offer the girl dates in new establishments, in those that you have never been to before - for sure, many wonderful and cozy restaurants or coffee shops with a romantic atmosphere have recently appeared in your city.
- Paragliding. If your girlfriend loves adrenaline, then she may be inspired by your proposal to go paragliding. In many large cities, some organizations have been offering this service for a long time. And by the way, it’s less scary than a parachute jump.
- A trip on a river boat. If there is a river in your city or in a nearby city, then most likely in the warm season there are boat trips along it, which everyone can afford. It is especially beautiful in the evening, when it comes to the metropolis, and you have a view of the lights of the evening embankment.
- Dinner by candlelight. Most often, girls arrange such surprises for their men, but believe me, any of them would be happy with a similar gift, because she won’t have to stand at the stove herself and so on. Prepare a delicious dish, choose a drink to go with it, buy some fruit, and light the candles before your beloved arrives. If you doubt your culinary capabilities, order her favorite dishes from the restaurant - she will probably like it just as much.
If you notice that a bad mood is typical for your chosen one more often than a good or neutral one, then, of course, you should determine the reason for this phenomenon. If this happens only in your presence, and at the same time you know that she is usually cheerful and cheerful with other people, then, obviously, the problem lies in your relationship. Perhaps the girl even told you more than once that she was not satisfied, but you did not attach much importance to it. Bring your beloved to a frank conversation (of course, without aggression and irritation), find out what she would like to change in your relationship.
If a girl becomes depressed not only in your company, then there may be several options.
1 - Pessimism
Perhaps she is a pessimist herself, so this affects her character accordingly. If a girl is aware of this problem, then it can be solved by attending appropriate trainings, studying literature on this topic, or meeting with a psychologist. It is possible that you are a born optimist by nature - then it is possible that over time you will infect her with your optimism.
2 - Health
Not everyone knows that some health problems are characterized by a depressed and irritable mood, increased fatigue, and apathy. This is a very common phenomenon, and your girlfriend may not even be aware of her problem. She should undergo an examination at the clinic, and especially a visit to an endocrinologist - such symptoms are often characteristic of people who have problems with the thyroid gland.
3 - Problems
Maybe there are problems in your girlfriend’s life that she cannot yet solve, and this leaves a certain imprint on her general condition. Talk openly with her and, if possible, try to help her solve her difficulties. Perhaps she has troubles in her family, in her team, or somewhere else, and she doesn’t know how to deal with them. It is possible that your advice or active participation will improve the situation.
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You don't have to go far to have a great time with your loved one. Especially if it's cold and rainy outside. You can find entertainment to your liking without leaving the comfort of your apartment. Do you have any doubts? Still don’t know how to entertain the young lady within four walls?
Then let's think about what to do with a girl at home to while away a stormy day without dying of boredom.
Leisure options with your loved one
I will offer several universal ways to have a good day, from which you can choose what suits you. Some options will require you to invest money, while others can be organized with minimal expense.
- Watching movies.
A classic of the genre, which, in my opinion, is always appropriate and interesting. You can, in principle, not prepare at all. Just call a girl, choose a movie/series together and start watching. But it will be more fun if you make at least minimal effort.
The simplest thing is to buy some goodies (pizza, cakes, ice cream, fruit). But we can go further. Let's say you agreed in advance to watch some part of Pirates of the Caribbean. Then why not create a themed environment? Decorate your room with pre-printed and cut-out anchors, seagulls, and palm trees.
Buy yourself and the lady a bandana, a toy gun, and make blindfolds. Buy baby champagne and put a rum label on the bottle. Agree to shout, “Anchor down your throat!” at particularly emotional moments in the film. and “Three thousand devils to the rumba!”
You can play absolutely any movie in a similar way. So show your imagination and it will be very cool.
- Photoshoot.
You or a friend or relative have a camera, then why not arrange a mini photo shoot for her. Prepare the background, plan the lighting, come up with an image and go!
- Quest.
Arrange for her a fun adventure with a search for a cherished treasure within the walls of her home. Think in advance about the places where you will hide the clues, come up with witty jokes and invite her to a home quest.
Passing levels can be complicated by completing small tasks, solving riddles, and fulfilling wishes. Accompany the process with musical cuts, explosions of firecrackers and congratulatory sparklers.
- Culinary delight.
Recently, the fashion for beautiful, gourmet European cuisine has reached its apogee. Today, almost everyone loves to cook (and actually cooks!)! There are just a lot of culinary programs and all kinds of master classes. Why don't you pay tribute to the trend?
Agree on the menu in advance, buy groceries and necessary kitchen equipment, and prepare your first lunch/dinner together.
- Tabletop battle.
Board games are a great escape from boring evenings. Of course, it will be more interesting to play some fashionable, store-bought thing. For example, it could be “Jenga”, “Twister”, “Monopoly”, “Lunacy”, “Uno”, “Evolution”, “Carcassonne”, “Scrabble”.
But if there is no money to buy or there is no desire to spend money on something that you may not need at all tomorrow, then you can play something that does not require investment. “Crocodile”, “Battleship”, “Forfeits”, “Who am I?”
True, playing such games together for a long time will be extremely boring, so at least then call your friends for help and play some “Mafia”. And if you find a deck of cards, then you can arrange a poker tournament.
- Learn something new.
Why not learn a few salsa steps? Or not watching a yoga lesson (another popular hobby in recent years). You can buy paper, paints, brushes and together try to depict something beautiful with watercolors or gouache (watercolor, perhaps, will be simpler).
You can sign up for a webinar on public speaking (you’ll practice techniques on each other at the same time).
And if you are truly advanced modern young people who make money from IT technologies, then why not watch a cool stream together using the same Zbrush? And then, each sitting at his own laptop, you can practice putting your new knowledge into practice and boast of success.
- Books.
Nowadays, unfortunately, not many people read. But if you and your young lady are an exception to this tragic rule, then why not while away the evening by reading a book together. Setting the room for maximum comfort. Prepare blankets, chairs, lighting.
If it's cold and rainy outside and there's a fireplace in the house, it'll be the perfect atmosphere for reading. Start from the same place, and during the break, share your thoughts and feelings over a cup of aromatic cocoa and delicious dessert. You know, nothing brings people together like simple human communication...
And after you finish reading the book, you can have another evening at home, but this time watching a film adaptation of the work.
- Mutual assistance.
If you have already tried different leisure options, and now you really have nothing to do, then... do something useful around the house! An unexpected decision, right? Let's say today she comes to you and helps you sort out the terrible stuff in your closet.
I just recommend that you dispose of anything that might shock her in advance (for example, those dirty socks of yours from a month ago). Well, tomorrow you will go to her and nail, hang, repair, clean, paint, whitewash, glue (oh, and I don’t envy you!) something that has been crying out for attention and care for a long time.
If communication with a girl somehow doesn’t go well. And no matter what you do, no matter how you try to entertain her, everything still goes wrong, then I advise you to read it again! And not just anything, but a very specific thing - . The author talks about the psychological characteristics of representatives of different sexes and gives examples from the lives of real people. I hope that after this it will be at least a little easier for you to understand your beloved.
Girls are very emotional creatures. They quickly become upset and depressed. But there is always a chance to cheer them up and lift their spirits, even through correspondence on social networks. It is important here that the interlocutor is in the mood for a conversation.
And to solve the problem, you need to know how to cheer up a girl if she is sad, even if she is not the lady of your heart.
Reasons for lack of mood in girls
There can be many reasons.
Some are minor and others are serious problems:
- Self-doubt. One of the common reasons why women become depressed. The girl thinks that she is not attractive enough, not interesting and boring. Maybe she's unsure of the outfit she's wearing. In such a situation, a sincere compliment will help.
- I broke up with my boyfriend. A common reason after which a woman does not want to communicate with anyone and withdraws into herself. She feels as if she is out of place. If you and the girl are close, then she herself will tell you about this incident.
- Problems at work, in school. Perhaps your friend is not up to the task. The bosses are dissatisfied with her work and because of this, a conflict arises. Or she has strained relationships with her colleagues.
- Fatigue. When a girl gets tired, her mood disappears. I don’t want to do anything, just lie and look at the ceiling. Maybe the girl worked a lot, studied, or “ran around the city” for several hours. Purely physically, I don’t have the strength to have fun.
- Family problems. It is also possible that not all is well in the family. And such a situation puts pressure on emotionality.
- Health. Anything is possible here: a toothache or a headache, an injury, various “women’s ailments.” If this is the case, then you may not know it, because girls don’t like to talk about such things.
- Your behavior. This happens because you don't know how to joke. Your jokes are tactless and rude. In this case, it is worth clarifying the reason for her bad mood. If the fault is with you, then it would be better to apologize.
- Boredom. It's corny, but true. This thing has a very strong impact on your emotional state. When a person is bored and doesn’t know what to do, emptiness begins to oppress. Idleness causes nervousness and decreased emotionality.
How a guy should behave if a girl is not in the mood:
How can you cheer up on VK by correspondence?
Before you start typing a message to her in contact, there are a few tips to consider.
This is necessary in order not to aggravate the situation even further.
- The first and important point - do not be ironic. Humor can lift your spirits, but only in a good way.
- Try to distract from the problematic topic.
- If you are in a bad mood, you will not be able to resolve the situation.
- The most important thing is attentiveness. Listen, become a vest in which you can cry.
- Don't forget about positive examples. Tell various funny situations from life.
- There is no need to use a lot of slang and unclear words.
- Don't try to be a clown.
How to cheer up a girl is explained in the video:
Examples
If it bothers you that your friend is sad, then cheer her up.
You don’t need to be a clown for this, because the simplest things can make a lady smile:
- Wishes for good morning, good day or good night. This helps to charge a person with positivity and good mood. If communication takes place via VK correspondence, then be sure to send her an emoticon or a sticker.
- Send a funny or cute video. Another best option. Find an interesting video with funny animals and send it to your girl. The main thing is to avoid vulgar and stupid videos.
- Compliments. The most win-win option. Any girl loves to receive pleasant words addressed to her, and this is an indisputable fact.
Reference! For example: “I never cease to be amazed at how pleasant your voice/beautiful eye color is.”. Act as you see fit.
Jokes
A good joke helps relieve tension and support further communication.
The female sex appreciates a sense of humor, so you can tell funny stories or jokes.
Important! Remember that jokes should not contain obscene words and avoid vulgar phrases (about sex, about an ex, etc.).
Jokes with a hidden compliment are perfect. For example, you can say that she resembles someone with her voice or character. And it’s important - don’t overdo it, everything should be in moderation.
Good jokes include those that have elements of comparison with objects or phenomena.
You can also make fun of your occupation or stupidity, of nature or the paradoxes of life. Clever jokes allow you not only to make a girl laugh, but also to show your broad horizons.
We try to make you laugh over the phone and SMS
Of course, it’s quite easy to cheer up a girl in person, because you can watch her reaction and stop at the right moment. But you can cope with such a task both by telephone and by correspondence.
If communication is based on messages, then try using funny phrases:“You see, I’m writing to you and I’ll sin a little. You’re too beautiful, you’re undermining my faith.”
Play with your imagination and come up with something original and funny, but not vulgar.
Another option is send her a funny gift, a picture and back it up with an interesting story. In the morning, you can also send her a funny SMS, and she will definitely smile.
If communication occurs during a telephone conversation, then voice plays an important role here:
- Intonation should be expressive and lively.
- Read jokes from social networks, but watch your voice. It shouldn't be monotonous.
- And if you know how to parody someone’s voice, then use this trick.
Create a joke with this character. For example, copy the voice of any famous person (singer, actor, politician, etc.).
How to interest and cheer up a girl via SMS is explained in the video:
Jokes for when she's sad
Who doesn't love jokes? Everyone likes them because they lift your spirits and make you feel cheerful for a long time.
But there is one nuance - not everyone likes jokes with vulgar notes or rude phrases.
- “If programmers come to power, entire ministries will be replaced by a small script”
- “When you clean the dirt off your mouse, you discover new features of your browser.”
- “A hedgehog was walking through the forest, farted, landed and moved on”
If nothing comes to mind, then turn to the Internet for help.
What question should I ask?
Many men are interested in: what to ask a girl if she is not in the mood and is sad? You can ask what caused this mood. If she trusts you, she will open up and talk about her experiences.
Ask questions that will be of interest to both of you. For example, ask about their profession, goals or dreams. You can also chat about crazy things that have been or will be done in life.
Important! React to your lady's answers. Don't forget to express your emotions.
Any question should be interesting and easy. Don't make the girl think too much, don't make her blush. Communication should be based on mutual emotions.
What to write?
Poetry
Just imagine how nice it will be for a girl to receive a poem.
You can compose it yourself or find it on the Internet.
“What happened, baby? Are you really sad? Where is your smile! Come on, honey, don't be mad. Share with me, I won’t offend you.”
“I love you even when you’re sad,
But don’t you dare be sad.
After all, life is more beautiful with a smile on your face!”
“Smile, my friend, and don’t you dare be sad,
There's no need for you to be sad.
Look, I'm trying
Makes you very happy.”
“Don't be sad, look how beautiful the day is
Smiles at you.
Higher nose, wider smile
Everything is about to get better”
Funny pictures and jokes
Mood is a thing that either exists or doesn’t. Sometimes an annoying little thing is enough to ruin a good mood.
But we definitely have to fight this. After all, as they say, laughter prolongs life.
The best and easiest option is funny pictures.
On the Internet you can find pictures for every taste. Girls like humor associated with pets and other animals. Such cute creatures not only cause tenderness, but also increase emotional balance by 100%.
Important! A funny picture should not contain obscene or vulgar expressions. After all, such a joke can offend the girl even more. It’s better to send her photos with funny cartoon characters, animals, bad shots, etc.
Watch a video collection of funny pictures:
Girls are emotional creatures, and sometimes it is difficult to understand when they are in a bad mood. But the main question is how to raise it.
You can seek help from advice that will show you the right path. Try to trust your instincts, analyze the situation and only then try to cheer the girl up.
Remember that every person is different, and you just need to find an approach.
There may be situations in which it is important to know secret ways of entertainment in order to please a woman and give her a smile, and for this you do not have to have money, as you can see by reading this and other thematic articles on this site.
How to entertain a girl on VK, Skype if she is bored, examples of correspondence both in conversation and when she is in the hospital
If a girl feels sad, and you can’t come to her and help cheer her up, then try to cheer her up through correspondence. Nowadays, modern phones and other gadgets make it possible to stay in touch anytime and anywhere.
With the help of correspondence on social networks or via SMS, you can lift the low mood of both a person who is bored at home and a girl in the hospital. To do this, you can tell her a couple of funny stories that happened to you during your separation.
You can also cheer up with the help of appropriate compliments, poems and beautiful declarations of love. All girls love with their ears (and in our case, with their eyes). So maybe you should tell her how lucky you are that the universe brought you together. Such confessions will undoubtedly not let your girlfriend get bored.
How to entertain a girl at home
If you decide to invite your girlfriend to your home for the first time, then you should think in advance about how and with what you will entertain her. All girls are quite sentimental by nature. Entertain her by looking at your childhood photos. For her it will be not only educational, but also fun.
If your girl doesn’t mind playing computer games, then check in advance whether your console is working and whether you have games that she might be interested in.
Getting to know your pets can be an amazing fun for your better half. Your task is not to become jealous of your “comrade” ahead of time.
How to entertain a girl on the street in winter, on a walk in summer if there is no money
Winter walks are a great time for fun. The main thing is to make sure that your girlfriend is warmly dressed and wearing shoes. But a thermos of hot tea won’t hurt either. And then let your imagination float freely and follow its flow.
In winter you can find a lot of entertainment: throwing snowballs at each other, taking your girlfriend on a sled, ice skating or skiing together, a romantic walk in the winter park.
In summer there are also many options for entertainment while walking. All the girls just love to be photographed. So arrange a real photo shoot for her in nature. Collect a bouquet of wildflowers, make a wreath for her and capture all this beauty on your phone from different angles.
How to entertain a girl on her birthday, New Year
A wonderful gift for your beloved girl for the New Year or her birthday can be a certificate for visiting a beauty salon with a variety of spa treatments, massages and other accessories.
You can give a girl a trip to the dolphinarium. Swimming with dolphins will leave the most pleasant and unforgettable experience of her life.
A good gift could be an excursion to a neighboring city or a trip to the theater. If finances allow, you can book a romantic weekend tour.
How to entertain a woman via SMS and phone
A rather original way to entertain a girl using SMS correspondence on the phone can be writing a fairy tale. The essence of this idea is that you, as a good storyteller, come up with a story yourself exclusively for your beloved.
To make the idea more fun and intriguing, do not send the entire fairy tale at once. Divide it into small episodes and send them at different times. If you manage to interest her in the beginning of your story, then with bated breath she will look at her phone so as not to miss the continuation of the story. It’s good if you yourself are the main characters of the essay.
How to surprise a homebody girl and engage her in conversation
Create a DIY gift for your beloved. Now on the Internet there are many ideas and master classes on creating pleasant little things.
Another great option for a pleasant time with a homebody can be a romantic dinner by candlelight or under the lighting of a home fireplace. At the same time, you can start a conversation on any topic that interests you or her, you can find out about her childhood or plans for the future.
How to entertain a girl when she's sad and on her period
If you can help her in any way, then offer her your care and support. She should know that she can count on your strong shoulder in any situation.
To distract her from her experience or sensations, try to do something special for her. For example, prepare a fragrant bath with foam and sea salt. This will help her relax and get a pleasant feeling from the care shown.
If necessary, use your sense of humor. Try telling her some distracting and funny story from your life.
Girls love it when guys entertain them, but often guys are at a loss: what to do with their beloved so that she doesn’t get bored?
Psychologists say that periodically you need to try something new with a girl. A feature of female psychology is that women very quickly get bored with monotony. A man can find his favorite cafe, restaurant and favorite ways to spend time, he is able to do this for months and not experience discomfort. Girls find this situation boring and they begin to become disillusioned with the relationship. It seems to them that the variety is lost, the passion is gone, and the guy does not want to pay enough attention to them. It is important that the guy does not allow such a situation and adds variety to the time spent together. After all, girls often either do not take the initiative or hint at their desires too vaguely.
But what should a guy and a girl do if their imagination has run out and it’s very difficult to come up with something original?
What to see
Many people love cinema, so it’s worth visiting a movie theater with your girlfriend. You've probably already done this, but try to introduce something new: for example, take turns choosing a movie to watch or go to those movies that you would never have decided to watch before. An alternative to going to the cinema is to watch a movie at home, but in this case it will be very difficult to choose a movie, because the choice is very wide.
Theater is a great opportunity not only to join the culture, but also for your girlfriend to “go out into the world” in full regalia. You shouldn’t think that theater is boring, because today they stage completely different plays, both more serious and easier to understand.
Exhibitions and museums are another way to get involved with art. It's okay if you both aren't very good at it. Just try to share your impressions of what you see: do you like it, do you understand what it is, and in general, can it be called art?
There are botanical gardens in many cities, so why not go for a walk there? Try to find out from the garden workers in advance when exactly is the best time to visit. Your girlfriend will surely love flowering plants.
Dancing
Many girls like to dance, so you can visit a club together. However, today you are unlikely to be able to surprise a girl with a club, so it’s worth coming up with something else.
For example, you can visit not the usual ones, but new, themed clubs: Latin American dances or music of the last century.
If you or your girlfriend can’t dance, then this means that you won’t find anything to do with your girlfriend. Try attending a dance master class together: whether you succeed or not, you will definitely have an interesting time.
Let's go for a ride, beauty
Invite the girl to go for a ride in a car or take a bike ride together. No less interesting for you will be skating or roller skating, skateboarding or skiing.
If you're going for a walk, try to think carefully about your route in advance so you don't get lost.
Physical training
Playing sports together is a great opportunity to get to know each other better, as well as improve your health.
Invite the girl to visit the gym or stadium together. Help her create an interesting exercise program for herself, introduce her to various sports equipment. You can also start jogging together in the morning - this is extra quality time together.
Don't know what to do with a girl if you're not very athletic? You can play together: kick a ball, play volleyball, basketball, tennis, etc. As a last resort, you can watch sports competitions together and cheer for your favorite team or athlete. It is important that this is interesting not only to you, but also to your loved one.
Getting healthy together
A good way to spend time together is through various medical procedures. So you can visit a beauty salon, sauna or bathhouse, give each other a massage, or go to a sanatorium. The advantage of such a pastime will be the opportunity to get to know each other from a different, unusual side.
Some of these procedures can be done at home if desired, so don’t be afraid of spending a lot of money.
Let's eat
Of course, cafes and restaurants are one of the most common ways to spend time. To prevent this from becoming a routine, make it a habit to periodically visit a place you have never been to. This will help you find your favorite cafe and discover new, unusual places.
Walk
Walking with a girl - what could be better? If you don't know what to do in the evening with a girl and can't afford to spend a lot, offer her a walk. It is important to warn her about this in advance so that she dresses appropriately and wears comfortable shoes.
Choose new and unusual places to go to add variety to your usual dates.
What to do at home
All of the above ways to spend time are wonderful, but what to do with a girl at home?
Of course, you can watch a movie or talk over a cup of tea, but it's not much fun, and it gets boring over time. What to do? Invite your loved one to cook a romantic dinner together. This way, you can spend time together, learn to do something new, and then you can also talk over a nice dinner. However, in case of failure, you should have a backup option for dinner so that you do not go hungry.
You can also try playing computer games that allow two people to play together. Competition will captivate you, and every victory will bring even greater joy.
